500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets By Michael Webb |
| 3/18/2008 10:11:38 PM |
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500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets By Michael Webb Have you ever had a new great idea to spice up your lovemaking but didn't do it because you were concerned about how your partner would react?
You're not alone.
This is a big reason why people don't spice up their love lives.
In fact, the longer you're together with your partner, the more likely you are to play it sexually safe.
Strange, huh?
You'd think the longer you've been with your partner, the MORE experimental and unique your lovemaking would become, right?
And surprisingly the reason for this problem is MUCH deeper than "feeling silly" or "being afraid something won't work."
Brace yourself.
Looking around for a solution, I came across a profound statement that changed the way I look at people and the world in general.
In fact, the statement's impact was so big, I realized that most of life's problems can be summed up (and fixed) with this one statement.
Here it is...
"In life, people consistently CHOOSE unhappiness over uncertainty."
Think about this very carefully... I mean really THINK about this statement.
People consistently choose "UNHAPPINESS" over "UNCERTAINTY"...
In other words, most people would rather live life the same even it doesn't make them happy, than change anything!
Let me show you how this relates to lovemaking.
Somebody thinks, "Okay, I want to spice up my lovemaking. I'll try this new great tip... wait a second!"
"What if it doesn't work?" "What if I get embarrassed?" "What if I look silly trying it?"
Which leads to thoughts like:
"What if it makes my relationship awkward from now on?" "What if my partner doesn't want to make love after this?" "What if they leave me?"
Are you serious? Come on!
Your partner supports you. They care for you.
They LOVE YOU.
When you actually think logically about it, you realize that these scenarios are silly and highly unlikely.
People conjure up these EXAGGERATED scenarios (usually unconsciously) because they would rather be unhappy with dull lovemaking than be UNCERTAIN of how their new lovemaking tips will turn out.
In most cases, they're probably missing out on many unforgettable experiences.
So the question is: How do you actually "step up" and try new things if you're unsure?
Okay...
I'm going to be brutally honest with you.
I'm totally committed to giving you advice that will ACTUALLY make your love life better.
So here it is:
Here's what you've been waiting for...
Just try it.
That's it.
You will never know until you try it.
You see, it's NORMAL to feel anxiety about trying something new with a partner, especially when you've been together for a long time.
But seriously, what's the WORST thing that could happen when you try a new tip or sit down and discuss it with your partner?
If you tried a new lovemaking position and your lover didn't like it...
1. They'd say, "I don't like that idea, let's try something else." 2. They'd ask you to go back and do something you did before. 3. They'd slowly transition into a previous or other position they're more comfortable with so they don't hurt your feelings.
Is that so hard to handle? Of course not.
I want you to say this aloud with me... "I can handle it!"
When you realize that NOTHING bad will happen, you gain tremendous confidence to try all sorts of new things.
An entire world of possibilities awaits you.
But you can't get this confidence until you actually TRY something new.
And you don't need to introduce whips or a third person--that's RUBBISH! You can try a new pleasurable technique or a new position--that's a good start.
Remember, everyone likes DIFFERENT things. So it'll take some trial and error to make your lovemaking the best you can possibly make it.
So I encourage you. I challenge you to try something new. Warmly, Michael Webb
=============================== About the Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb has taught couples how increase the passion and intimacy of their lovemaking for the past 12 years.
His book "500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets" shows couples how to bring back that magic spark and how to keep it alive once and for all.
To learn more about check out: 500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets ===============================
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