After Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D., author of Save The Marriage was asked the same message repeatedly, he realize he need to answer it.

The question lately has been "should I share your ebook and/or
online ecourse with my spouse?"  The question comes from when
there is a spouse who is upset about the marriage, and the
other spouse has found some answers.

You see, so many people have a "paradigm shift" about what a
marriage is about, and what it could be, and want to get the
spouse on-board.

However, they are wisely concerned that telling a spouse might
cause a strong negative reaction.

Unfortunately, we often have a need to rebel against anything
someone tells us, especially a spouse!  This is especially
true when there is conflict.

So, here are my thoughts:
1)  if both of you are on-board that there is a problem, and
both are looking for a solution, by all means, share.

2)  if your spouse knows there is a problem, but wants nothing
to do with a solution, DO NOT SHARE IT.  Instead, live it!
Take the information, and allow yourself to be transformed.
This often becomes contagious, and the other either naturally
shifts, or at least wants to know what is up.  Then share at
that point.

3)  this is the gray area.  The spouse may know there is a
problem, wants things to change, but is skeptical that things
can.  At this point, you may want to observe that you have
gained a new understanding of marriage, and then say that
you found it in my ebook (or in the ecourse), and let it sit.
Allow the other person to become curious about it.  You have
SHARED what has helped you, but have not PRESSURED the other
person to try it out.  This makes a huge difference in the
other's willingness to be open to the informaion.

If you have not yet grabbed your copy of my ebook, Save The
Marriage (and the very special reports), I invite you to get
it now.  You will find out what others are discovering:  it
really can make a shift in your thinking.

Go now to:
==> Save The Marriage <==
By Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

I hope you got some help there!  I have really
thought about the question a great deal lately, and hope you
can use the information.

Best wishes.

Faithfully,
Lee
Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

P.S.:  Again, if you haven't already, take the chance to make
the shift right now, while you are thinking about it.

Save The Marriage